Most women set out to try to change a man, and when they have changed him they do not like him.--Marlene Dietrich

You are YOU for a reason, and they are them for a reason. Obviously you took that person or that person took you knowing what came in the box so-to-say, so why even try! It's the obvious reason why marriages end in this world is, that instead of working out the kinks and adopting to certain things people cop out and try and have a person accomidate to THEMSELVES radther than taking a look at theirs truly and thinking about the fact that the other being in the relationship whether it's a marriage or friendship may have a few things that light the bombs fuse! The problem with divorse is it makes it all easier, and is easier than ever to achieve. This doesn't just go for the girls it's for everyone, stop bieng so judgemental and so damn picky until you look in the mirror and realize that you just like the rest of the world have problems. Again we are all they way we are for a reason, no matter what you believe in, or fantasize in we don't FEEL for no reason at all. We are not perfect for a reason. (Jeremy let her go!)