Most women set out to try to change a man, and when they have changed him they do not like him.--Marlene Dietrich

You are YOU for a reason, and they are them for a reason. Obviously you took that person or that person took you knowing what came in the box so-to-say, so why even try! It's the obvious reason why marriages end in this world is, that instead of working out the kinks and adopting to certain things people cop out and try and have a person accomidate to THEMSELVES radther than taking a look at theirs truly and thinking about the fact that the other being in the relationship whether it's a marriage or friendship may have a few things that light the bombs fuse! The problem with divorse is it makes it all easier, and is easier than ever to achieve. This doesn't just go for the girls it's for everyone, stop bieng so judgemental and so damn picky until you look in the mirror and realize that you just like the rest of the world have problems. Again we are all they way we are for a reason, no matter what you believe in, or fantasize in we don't FEEL for no reason at all. We are not perfect for a reason. (Jeremy let her go!)

Just Thinking

So I was at the beach thinking about everything that's been happening lately. I recently got out of the Military only hearing about the economic hardship this country has been going through. I never thought about the fact it might just be as hard as it sounds, I never like to say that I'm ignorant but today I fully admit I was. I meet this awesome person on the beach who I wanted to use for a few photo's and the subject came up... We began talking about I was looking for a job and she was very reassuring when she told me "that it really isn't that bad, think about it real hard."

I sat down and really thought about the time I decided that I couldn't stay anymore that I couldn't go out and come back with less friends than I left with. I truly am much happier than I was a year ago, even 2 months ago. I was walking away and through the city later on, when I stumbled across a long line of homeless men and women with the knowledge that things can truly be much worse. I heard a quote that same day that read " To play it safe, is not to play." then it hit me( a week later). The same advice I have been giving my friends about going out there and giving it everything, and all that other advice I couldn't even follow myself well....I WAS LAZY! these past few days I've been going around doing 10x more than I was doing the past month and I realized I forgot the persistence that fuels the focus wasn't there. I said that I was going to update this blog, that I was going to be more productive with the photography that I said I wanted to work on, and most of all the reconnection with the people I haven't seen in years! all I'm going to end this with is that I at 1:00am couldn't sleep and remembered that moment on the beach and had to admit it to you guy that I almost didn't even care..... that I messed up and took this time and everything I have been working on for granted....why it came out like this who knows....

Best Fest Student Film Festival Coming Soon!!!

Here is anonther poster option for Best Fest coming this November

Best Fest Student Film Festival Coming Soon!

They are a nonprofit organization passionate about serving the next generation of filmmakers. They mentor, train and provide a network for their productions and skits to be seen by many coming this november.